A Recipe to Ascension

A recipe to Ascension: Become the version of yourself that is most in integrity and in alignment with your Higher Self. You should be so focused on yourself, that there is no time to worry about others. Your best version of yourself is so locked in that it has no time for drama and distractions. This might sound cheap and if you translate it into real life action, it’s not so cheap anymore. Because staying true to you and being your authentic self takes effort and a whole lot of protection. This is not meant in a defensive way. Not at all. Quite the opposite. When you are so in line with who you are, you have no need to prove yourself. If you are at all bothered or worried by what other people do, your focus is on the wrong thing. And it lures you in.

The danger here is to be concerned with others as a way of avoiding yourself or short-cutting your work. A rule of thumb is: Always bring it back to yourself. That doesn’t mean that you need to tolerate other’s behaviour, especially if it’s intolerable. What it means is that you step away, or have enough distance internally, that it does not affect you. You have bigger fish to fry. It is the ability to detach. Realising that none of this really matters, and that there are more important things to worry about. Because there are. If you are involved in other’s people’s business you are either not involved enough in your own, or you have a tendency to bypass your stuff by looking to other people.

The essence of this is that if you are awake, you realise that you are and have always been on your own path. And that this lifetime is here for you to grow and evolve, and make the most out of it. And with that comes a high level of self-responsibility and accountability. If you are focused on other people, you are really missing the point. It is like watching reality tv shows. You are numbing yourself by consuming other people’s drama. It’s a form of entertainment, even in real life. If you were disciplined and stoic enough to see through that, then any distraction would be a waste of your precious time. So next time someone offends you, thank them, and say thank you for bringing me back to myself. I don’t need this in my life.