Divine Feminine Chasing

The Divine Feminine cannot chase. A Divine Feminine who chases lacks boundaries and a healthy sense of self. She might think she needs something outside of herself. She will push away everything she desires by trying too hard, by forcing, by willing. This causes pain for herself and others.

She has to pour everything into herself. We live in a world where this is contradicted. Where she is trained to lack, to long, and to lust. She was manipulated a long time ago, a time when she was young. Manipulated into believing that she is lacking something and therefore must chase. She keeps chasing, until she ends up depleted, resentful, and heart-broken. This is the story of many Divine Feminines. And the only way you get out of this, this mad race, is by pouring into yourself. All of it. Pour all of it into yourself. This is the only job you have in this life.

It sounds simple. Or profane. Maybe like wishful-thinking.

The Divine Feminine goes through hardships and trials. She bleeds, sheds tears, gives up and begins again. She knows defeat and despair. No battle is worth fighting if you lose yourself. One of the hardest lessons a Divine Feminine can learn is that there is nothing outside of myself that can save her, fix her or heal her. Every time she has to come back to herself, realizing that she always already ad what she needed. She carries the medicine inside of her.

The Divine Feminine has to start with herself. She has to honour and celebrate herself like the Queen that she is. And this comes in a variety of ways. A humble way. A silent way. A weary way. It's not glamorous and it's not pretty. But it's true and real. It's the capacity to stand up for yourself when no one else will. It's the willingness to try again when you've failed so many times. It's the vulnerability to open your heart again when you've been hurt. Honouring yourself as the Princess that you are. The Queen, the Warrior. Everyone else will tell you who they think you are. Who you are to them. Who are you to yourself?

No matter the challenge, no matter the hardship - you have to pour into yourself. This is energetic law. It is the only way the Divine Feminine gets what she needs and desires. She has to learn to use her magnetic power. In a world, that uses women like a workhorse, cloaking them in a masculine role of achievement while offering no support, burnout is the result. The Divine Feminine is exploited. It is time she pours into herself, putting herself first, taking a look at her life. Where is she being betrayed or betraying herself? Where is she not true to herself? How is she being drained instead of being replenished? And then, she starts with herself. Using her own power. Affirming herself. Digging deep. Grounding. Being born again.

This is vital to the well-being of the Divine Feminine. She is not meant to be over-productive. She is not meant to leak energy. She is not meant to prove herself. The only way a Divine Feminine can be healthy is when she recognises that she cannot give away her power by expecting anyone to treat her differently than she is treating herself. A Feminine that chases causes chaos because she is not in her sacred energy. It means that she is imbalanced and this reflects back in the environment. Others cannot give her what she needs when she is not open and receptive. When she chases, she thinks she needs to struggle. All she needs to do is to rest, be open and receive. This is how the Divine Feminine works and how her energy operates. How she is healthy and in balance. Pulling back her energy from all places outside of herself and coming back home. Pouring into herself. Even if just for a moment.