Why the Divine Feminine cannot chase. And does it anyway.

The Divine Feminine cannot chase. A Divine Feminine who chases lacks boundaries and a healthy sense of self. She might think she needs something outside of herself, and it can seem very real. Energetically, however, she cannot chase. She will push away everything she desires by trying too hard, by forcing, by willing. This causes pain for herself, and others.

She has to pour everything into herself. We live in a world where this is contradicted. Where she is trained to lack, to long, and to lust. She was manipulated a long time ago, a time when she was young. Manipulated into believing that she is lacking something and therefore must chase. She keeps chasing, until she ends up depleted, resentful, and heart-broken. This is the story of many Divine Feminines. And the only way you get out of this, this mad race, is by pouring into yourself. All of it. Pour all of it into yourself. This is the only job you have in this life.

It sounds simple. Or profane. Maybe like wishful-thinking.

I am here to help you. To guide you on your path. I am a Divine Feminine who has gone through hardship, trials. I have bled, shed tears, given up, and begun again. I know defeat, and I know despair. I can only tell you this. No battle is worth fighting if you lose yourself. The hardest lesson I had to learn as a Divine Feminine is that there is nothing outside of myself that can save me, fix me, or heal me. Every time - I came back to myself, realizing that I had what I needed. I carried the medicine inside of me. And so do you.

If words could emphasise the importance of this, I would repeat it every day. If you are a Divine Feminine, you have to start with yourself. You have to honour and celebrate yourself like the Queen that you are. And this comes in a variety of ways. A humble way. A silent way. A weary way. It's not glamorous and it's not pretty. But it's true and real. It's the capacity to stand up for yourself when no one else will. It's the willingness to try again when you've failed so many times. It's the vulnerability to open your heart again when you've been hurt. I want you to know that I love you, and I see you. I honor you as the Princess that you are, the Queen, the Warrior. Everyone else will tell you who they think you are. Who you are to them. Who are you to yourself?

Divine Feminine, no matter the challenge, no matter the hardship. You have to pour into yourself. This is the law. It is the only way that the Divine Feminine will get what she wants. You have to learn to use your innate magnetic power. Otherwise you burn out. In a world, that uses women like a workhorse, cloaking them in a masculine role of achievement while offering no support. You are being exploited. It is time you pour into yourself, putting yourself first, and taking a look at your life. Where are you betraying yourself? Where are you not true to yourself? How are you being drained instead of replenished? And then, start with yourself. Use your own power. Affirm yourself. Dig deep. Ground. And be born again.

This is vital to your well-being, Divine Feminine. You're not meant to be productive. You're not meant to leak energy. You're not meant to prove yourself. The only way a Divine Feminine can be healthy is when she recognises that she cannot give away her power by expecting anyone to treat her differently than she is treating herself. A Feminine that chases causes chaos and trouble, while she might not realise this. It means that she is imbalanced and this will reflect in her environment. People can't give her what she needs because she is not open and receptive. She thinks she needs to struggle, when all she needs to do is rest, open, and receive. This is how the Feminine works, how her energy operates, and how she is healthy and in balance. I want this for you, Divine Feminine. So begin today. Pour into yourself. Pull back your energy from all places outside of yourself, and come home to you. Even if just for a moment.